Pam married Squadron Leader Michael Rosco Ingle-Finch in Westminster in 1944. She was the daughter of Squadron Leader Laurence Henry Forster Irving (RAF), who was helping Peter Fleming in Kent in 1940, and his wife Rosalind (nee Woolner). This doubtless explains her recruitment to Special Duties. Laurence was an art director and was the grandson of the actor Sir Henry Irving and the son of the actress Miss Dorothy Baird. Born in St Pancras she was brought up in The Black Windmill, Whitstable, Kent.
She died in Ashford, Kent and the couple are buried at St Marys Church, Stone.
| Unit or location | Role | Posted from | until |
|---|---|---|---|
| Ardingly Instation | Operator | Unknown | Unknown |
| Alnwick Instation | Operator | 20 Jan 1943 | 20 Jul 1944 |
| Bilting (Challock) Instation | Operator | 1942 | 1942 |
| Edinburgh Golf Course Instation | Operator | 1942 | Unknown |
She was visited by Beatrice Temple as follows;
East Grinstead 25 Feb 1942,
Possibly at Challock 30 Mar 1942,
Edinburgh 6 Aug 1942 where it is commented she wants to return to Hatfield Peverel.
Temple's diary records; Nov 26 1942 - "Returned to Hatfield Peverel – able to talk to Cicely. To ‘other place’ with Avis and Pamela but security vague".
Alnwick 20 Jan 1943; On to Alnwick – Pamela there – lunch in hut. After lunch met Colonel Villiers – willing to have them. Back to hut – picked up Pamela – introduced to Anderson, then tea in mess. Mar 24 1943 Newcastle – Morpeth – Alnwick (Bettine off duty, others flourishing). Dinner in mess with Colonel Villiers. Pamela now engaged. Apr 26 1943 Back again to Alnwick – collected Pamela for interview with Lady R – all amicably settled.
Beatrice Temple Diary,
Mike Gunnill
The Tatler 19 March 1941
The Sketch 1941